Wednesday, May 24, 2017

To Be Honest

People often say that honesty is the best policy, well I thought it would be fun to share how I'm honestly feeling about some things.

To be honest this move has me sufficiently stressed out. Not because of the movers or our timeline but solely because of the housing situation. For anyone who has moved to a new location you know how stressful it can be. Kyle is not a MAJ yet so renting off post is not ideal because most homes are priced for that BAH (Basic Allowance for Housing), which would likely force us to come out of pocket. 

Our ideal is living on post but I swear it is like the Hunger Games. I promise you I am not exaggerating. Student housing at Leavenworth is first come, first serve. Meaning that you better be at housing at zero dark thirty to see if there are any homes available. The problem with this is, everyone is arriving at different times so who the hell knows how many houses are available daily. 

Now, they do offer a "virtual" signing option. If you are lucky enough to know people there you can entrust them to show up at housing to view a house and maybe sign for it ahead of time. However, that means if you sign for a home you are paying rent on 2 places haha. I would rather do that than stay in a hotel for a week or more. Thankfully, a friend has agreed to do this for us but there is a chance a home may not be available for who knows how long. Fingers crossed and may the odds be ever in our favor.


To be honest I've been terrible about giving Emma and Fishy enough attention lately. They are perfectly content most of the time just laying on their blankets on the couch but I know they need love and snuggles too. As I am writing this Emma has made her way into my lap, so clearly she is agreeing with this.


To be honest I've been watching the news far too much lately and it really is a downer. Over the last year I've started watching it more at night after E goes to bed whereas before I would rely on Kyle for the news. Unfortunately, I can't handle it anymore so back to Food Network I go. Even though I have seen every possible episode of Chopped, it makes me happy. 


To be honest I am denial that our niece and nephew are growing up haha. Today is their last day of school and next year they will be in 5th and 1st grades. Umm when did that happen?! I feel like they were just born, I certainly didn't give them permission to grow up. :) Lord, help me now when it comes time for E to go to school.


To be honest I've seen far too many people commenting on the parenting styles of others. Unfortunately, we live in a time where people tend to say things even when they are not warranted or needed. I'm of the mindset that if no one is being injured or harmed then it is none of my business to comment. Even if I am asked, I tend to shy away from answering because I just don't want to go down that road. This really pertains to life in general not just raising kids.


I have to say writing this post was pretty fun! I may have to make this a regular thing.

22 comments:

  1. I've been in a new house for now a little over a year. I certainly don't want the moving stress again

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    1. I don't blame you. It can definitely be a stressful situation!

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  2. A lot of the news really is a bummer these days! I watch 5 minutes while eating my breakfast and that's all I care to see!

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  3. Ugh, sorry about the move stress. I remember all of that last year :/

    And yes, the news is a downer these days, big time.

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    1. It's such a crazy situation! Yes, the news is just too much most days. It hurts my heart to see everything happening.

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  4. Sometimes you just gotta let your honesty out! I hope things go smoothly with getting housing once you're there!

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    1. Thanks, Lauren! We should have something secured in the next few days and I'm so relieved.

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  5. Moves and housing always stress me out. I have to say that I visited Leavenworth two summers ago for the first time and remember telling my girlfriend Bethany (who lived there) that it was the Armys hidden secret. Seriously- beautiful!!

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    1. I am so so excited!!!! My husband was there for a class last summer and he loved it!

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  6. I soooo feel you on the housing thing. We're not sure how long it will take us to find a place in Iowa, so we're pretty much putting everything in storage and will borrow Andy's dad's camper to live out of until we find something we like. Who knows how long that will be!!!

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  7. Moving in a regular situation is stressful enough without all that other stuff! Ugh yes, people really need to mind their own business about everything!

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  8. Haha, you have no idea how happy I was when I got the call from Post housing just a week after going active. I was at work when I got the call and was literally dancing around!! I hope it works out well for you guys :)

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  9. So sorry about the moving situation!! I totally understand pcs stress. The move here was such a pain in the ass...I wouldn't wish all that happened to us on anyone!! Haha and we rented our condo site unseen!!
    Hope things go smoothly for you guys asap!!

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    1. Haha yeah at this point I'm okay with signing for a house and not seeing it. I just want a place to live.

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  10. Moving is so stressful, especially when it's a first come first serve thing. I hope you get an answer soon! I also agree in the news. It stresses me out!

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  11. I got anxious just reading your paragraph about housing at Leavenworth...that's sounds awful. I hope everything works out for you and you get a great house. We rented our house at Leonard Wood sight unseen, because I wanted to have something lined up when we arrived, but thankfully the house was great.

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    1. It's definitely an interesting situation to be in as far as housing at Leavenworth. We should hopefully have something secure in the coming days so I'm relieved.

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  12. I'm glad that I really haven't seen too many people sharing opinions about someone else's parenting. That is always annoying! And I feel like a bad citizen but I am terrible about watching the news. It's just all so depressing or ridiculous that I can't handle it.

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  13. Love this post! Argh, moving is stressful enough as it is, but to then have to worry about getting housing?? Sigh. I hope you guys get an awesome house asap!! Haha it's funny how everyone is all up on someone's business but they don't want everyone up in theirs. What a double standard!! People really should just mind their own business. And yep, the news is totally depressing.

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  14. I can barely watch the news anymore. I like to be informed, but I take things so personally and if I read a story about someone hurting I end up thinking about it for hours. Unfortunately almost all the news is about people hurting. I get The Skim emails and it's great because it's little snippets of news with links if I want to read more.

    Good luck with the move. We've never lived on post but I know many who have dealt with that headache!

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  15. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much stress with the move! I hope everything works out for you guys! I am not a mom yet but I hate seeing moms judge each other! It's such a hard job, I admire everyone who is doing it and wish everyone could just support each other!

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  16. We decided to do post housing at Gordon, and I was anxious about fighting captains going to the career course for housing because this a two-year duty station. And I stopped watching the news. I keep updated online but cannot watch daily news anymore. It's awful.

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